The Weekenders

By Dylan Reece, Sydney

As most escorts will tell you, a weekender with a client is a rare thing and can be hell if you're not prepared. I have a few tips on just how to survive a whole weekend with a client.

First of all, how do you get such a big escort job? It all depends on how and where you advertise. Always remember if you are seeking this type of escort work always advertise yourself as available for overnights, weekends and trips away. The more you state just how flexible you are the better your chances of getting a client to contact you for a weekend, week or overseas holiday. Most clients I have found will book well in advance, although I am sure there are clients that are only able to give 1 days notice. Always be prepared to travel at any given time should you want repeat clientele and high cash return.

I don't advise on going at a moment's notice. It's just not a safe idea. Best advice is to become as familiar with your client as you can prior to you arriving wherever you plan to stay. Remember guys 3 days away with a stranger can be fatal if you don't do your homework and let someone know where you are and that you will be calling at certain times throughout the weekend to ensure your safety.

Make it very clear to the client that although you are discreet you have someone else that knows where you are and that you have call in times. This protects you and will guarantee a safe and fulfilled weekend with the client.

So you have an inquiry either by phone or email. How do you go about getting the client to hire you?
Firstly, a client who is prepared to book you for a whole weekend is usually very picky whom they want and money is never an issue. Friendly, polite, affectionate and intelligence is what a weekender client will want first and foremost. Sex and attention is secondary in this type of job. Except in cases where the client will take you away to an island or holiday destination, then be prepared to be more like a show pony and sex machine! Only because they are on holiday and are less likely to want conversation over sex.

You should be able to tell what a client is searching for, as they will be very upfront about what they require from you for the weekend. If they are, don't ever assume ask everything you can think of to ensure you don't get in a situation you will regret. Don't leave anything out. If you can't fulfill what the client wants, don't take the job just because of the prospect of quick easy money.

A weekend with a client is not easy money and the client can be at your side for 24hrs a day until you go. Always set the time frame you will be available and make the client aware of special needs you require. I always take a deposit of at least a quarter of the money for the weekend rate. This ensures that the client is genuine and that you don't lose out if the client cancels at the last moment. If a client refuses to pay a deposit then decline their offer. At the same token, do not take the money and not show up. This only gives other escorts a bad reputation and you will be surprised just how much more money or gifts a client will give you when you're in their company.

I have just spent a weekend with a client in NYC at his home. My client contacted me 6 months prior to meeting and we had set up an appointment within 2 months. All using email only. He told me what he wanted and why. I told him I could accommodate his needs and gave him my special conditions I require to make my stay more comfortable. Therefore being able to fully give the client my undivided attention for the weekend.

If you are honest upfront with a client, then there will be no problems once you arrive. If the client doesn't agree to your conditions, come to a compromise either with a rate reduction or some other way. Don't not just spring it upon them once you're there. That makes the client feel like they are being ripped off, and that can have disastrious effects on your stay.

What I mean by conditions is just some things so you can get away by yourself for a few hours. Believe me, you will thank me for this advice, and if you tell a client in a good way, they won't mind at all. Example: My typical weekender will go like this. I will arrive sometime in the late Friday afternoon, even early evening. This allows the client to come home from work and gives you enough time to adjust before heading out to dinner. Clients will appreciate this very much.

Suggest eating out at night at a nice romantic place. This will always entice a client to take you to his favorite restaurant. It's a good way to get to know your client and what your in for without actually commiting. There is a window here where you can bail out if your not comfortable without offending the client. I make it clear to a client that I don't have sex in the mornings. Again, these requests are up to you. I feel that less sex is better, but some clients will want to get there moneys worth. If you handle it well, you'll both be happy by the time the weekend comes to an end.

I tell the client that I need anything between 4 to 6 hrs away from them to go to the gym, exercise etc. This gives you some breathing space so you don't go mad and detest the client.

I usually finish either late Sunday night or early Monday morning. It all depends on how much you are charging the client. Rememberthat the more the client is paying, the more you will have to work to please them. A good figure for a weekend is usually between $4000-$6000 including airfares, accomadation, meals and all activities to which they want you to accompany them.

Just remember to be friendly, polite, and very trustworthy. Never steal from a client or treat them like crap. If you want to have a nice time and make a genuine friend for the weekend, the secret is in the charm. The nicer you are, the easier the weekend will be for you.

Dylan Reece is a porn model for Sports and Recreations Video and a long-time escort.