HOOK: E-zine By, For, and About Men in the Sex Industry

A: ummmm kinky....i get paid to dominate...no sex. the area covered by a bathing suit is covered at all times. S&M

HOOK: for people who don't understand what S&M means -can you explain that?

A: bondage dicipline domination submission sadism masochism

HOOK: how do clients find you?

A: through the internet...phone servicies like 479-DATE....walking down the street

HOOK: you work with any agencies?

A: nope...i want all my money:)

HOOK: so how do you place your ads?

A: I dont... i will be chatting and it will come up

HOOK: How many regular clients do you have?

A: 4...the rest moved to other places of the world

HOOK: can you explain how you navigate the issue of sex - how you keep it separate from sexual experience?

A: i tell them from the get go if they want an orgasm....they have a bathroom and a hand

HOOK: is the experience sensual?

A: yes...it is a form of eroticia

HOOK: please explain that...

A: the power exchange is very intimate. i am attracted to the intimacy

HOOK: how do you build up this intimacy? in what ways?

A: through pain pleasure torture freedom and power. touch contact. etc etc.

HOOK: I know it makes sense to you - but those methods sound general - can you explain more abut what this process is like. it is new to me.

A: example......i come over ring the buzzer. we sit down negotiate the scene that the person wants....i say if it ok or not ok. if it is ok....let’s say an intense flogging scene. he drops half the money...off comes his shirt....i collar him. i put restraints on his wrists and clip them to the collar... i pull out the flogger flog him for a while...stop....wrap my arms around him ask how he is doing. ask if he wants to continue. he says yes. i flog some more and repeat steps 1 and 2 again. after we are done, i take the restraints off...begin aftercare...which is a lot of body contact. then i leave.

HOOK: what first attracted you to doing this?

A: i will pass on that question

HOOK: can you tell me how old you were when you first begin training - and I assume it is a training process?